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The Bachelorette Reunion! | Ali Fedotowsky

Oh my gosh what a visit watching the Bachelorette reunion last night time! Truthfully, I had a bit of hysteria waiting for it to air. I do know this may sound loopy to a few of you however I’m truly type of shy. I don’t know what it is however typically in group conditions like that I can shut down. Which is fascinating to me as a result of when you put me in a room with 10,000 individuals and informed me to provide a presentation I might be completely cool with it! But one thing a few small group feels intimidating to me. Fortunately, all the women are actually unimaginable and made me feel comfortable. I actually love this group of women and it was an absolute deal with to be able to spend the day with them!

The night time before we filmed, a bunch of us acquired collectively at a restaurant on the lodge we have been staying at. It was so nice to catch up with the women off-camera and hear the place everyone is of their life. Talking of, I additionally LOVED the home visit packages they aired on the present final night time! It enjoyable to see everybody of their house lives now that the show is completed. Btw, how cute have been Molly and Riley in our residence package deal?! I can’t get over seeing them on TV! Although they’re on TV on a regular basis on the show I work on, House & Family, it still blows my thoughts to see them on nationwide television each single time! I’m a proud mama!

And I know within the special I stated Riley was one. Principally, once we filmed that a few month in the past I assumed he can be one when it aired. However my timing was somewhat bit off. Oh nicely! He shall be one in three weeks! Loopy!

Anyway, the night time we have been all at the bar/restaurant at the lodge it was so humorous to see different individuals at the restaurant take a look at us and acknowledge us. Look, I don’t get recognized that always once I exit in Los Angeles. Hardly, truthfully. Or perhaps I do and other people simply don’t care of here. Which why would they? I’m identical to everyone else in this city. So it was type of enjoyable to go to the restaurant and see peoples jaws drop once they appeared over and saw not one but 2, three, four, 5, or 6 of the lady they watched try to discover love on nationwide tv. It truly made our night time when individuals would come over to our desk and inform us about how they watched all of our seasons and needed to take footage! It was only a actually cool factor to be part of.


I do wanna inform you guys about my gown real fast. I can’t even inform you how many clothes I attempted on earlier than I settled on this one. I don’t know, I used to be just tremendous nervous concerning the particular! To be utterly upfront and trustworthy, I’m the most important Bachelorette – measurement sensible. Not that that issues in any respect because it doesn’t! If anything, I’m fairly pleased with the truth that I’m bigger than the other women and still acquired the chance to be the lead on the show. I feel it’s necessary that ladies of all sizes and shapes are represented on television. And I get that a measurement 6 isn’t massive. Belief me I know that. However something about standing subsequent to all the women, most of which are itty bitty and simply petite individuals normally, I used to be tremendous self-conscious! As you’ll be able to see I look so tall in the pics standing internet to them proper? I’m solely 5’7″. It’s not like I’m 5’11” so something. They’re just principally petite ladies! And I really like everyone of these teeny tiny gals. Ha!

Anyway I used to be actually exhausting on myself leading up to the taping. After I tried on one million issues, I finally discovered this gown and simply felt lovely in it! I feel it will be absolutely beautiful for a rehearsal dinner gown or a bridal bathe gown! Needed to hyperlink it here so that you guys might feel simply nearly as good in it as I do!

What you didn’t see behind the scenes of the particular was us women chatting in a closet upstairs in the mansion. Ha! No actually, a bunch of us grabbed a couple of bottles of wine and sat on the ground of a walk-in closet and talked for hours (whereas they have been filming the fans testing the mansion)! Jillian and Desiree have been each pumping mamas at the time so that they had their breast pumps out pumping away while all of us just chatted away. We talked concerning the present, we talked about life now, and most significantly we simply hung out supporting one another. I’ll all the time keep in mind that closet chat. I’ll keep in mind sitting on the floor wanting around and seeing so many unimaginable ladies that haven’t only impacted my life in an enormous method however I know have impacted so many other lives on the market too!


Rachel’s Bridal Bathe

It was really an honor to be at Rachael‘s bridal shower! I just adore Rachel as a result of she is sensible, robust, and unapologetically herself!

So being at her bridal bathe and celebrating her turning into Mrs. Abasolo very soon was so particular! Really, you didn’t see a lot of the bathe. It’s been so long since I’ve been on the show that I overlook that you would be able to movie for hours after which they only present a couple of minutes of it. That’s why every season when individuals are quick to guage the contestants I try to clarify that we actually don’t know what’s happening since we see so little of what’s truly filmed. And despite the fact that they only confirmed a few minutes of Rachel’s bathe, we have been there for hours! Similar goes for the Bachelorette Reunion. We have been on the mansion for 8 hours and I feel they confirmed about 30 mins of it, if that!

And through Rachel’s bridal bathe, we drink numerous champagne! Spent a lot of time talking about Rachel’s love story and had just a little bit too much fun within the photograph booth! In fact you noticed all the cute lingerie she obtained! The lingerie I obtained her wasn’t shown because of course I’m an previous boring mother and received her a cute white lace bra and underwear. In my thoughts that’s risky lingerie! Ha! I undoubtedly have to reside a bit.

By the best way, Alexis is likely one of the funniest individuals I’ve ever met! I’ve all the time beloved her since she was dolphin woman on her season, however meeting her in individual totally validated all my love for her! She principally had me peeing my pants (or gown? Ha!) in the course of the bathe as a result of I was laughing so onerous. She wants her personal present! I might watch loyally each single week if she had one!

1. DRESS| 2. HEELS | three. PURSE | four. BAR NECKLACE

Also, I need to offer you details on my gown from Rachel‘s shower. To be completely honest with you I was feeling so gross before I got dressed to go. I was super bloated, about 10 pounds heavier than my normal weight, and honestly a little bit hung over from the night before. Knowing how gross I felt I knew I had to wear a dress that I felt really good in. And this floral dress was it! It is so crazy flattering! I love that it covers my arms because I’m not super snug about my arms displaying. And I additionally love that it’s lengthy sufficient that I don’t have to worry about too much displaying once I sit down. I paired it with a cute pair of blush pumps and a $23 purse! Doesn’t this purse look designer and tremendous expensive! I feel it does! And it’s only 23 bucks!


And for those asking concerning the button up shirt I was sporting once I watched the present last night time I assumed I might link it in right here as nicely. It’s super reasonably priced and solely $31 I completely am obessed with it because of how lengthy it is! Usually once I purchase button up shirts they are brief and don’t have that tunic really feel put on a shirt covers your booty. And let’s face it, us women who have hips and butt typically like a bit of protection once we’re out and about. Not all the time, however typically I feel extra assured once I’m coated up. The shirt is tremendous long as you’ll be able to see in the photograph under and very good high quality.


I truly first saw one other blogger sporting this on Instagram and fell in love with it so I ordered it for myself. And whenever you don’t need to wear it long you possibly can unbutton one or two at the backside and tie it within the front like I did the photograph under. Exhausting to see as a result of I’m sitting down though. Oh and my footwear above are only $14! It took like about three weeks to return within the mail (simply FYI) but I really like them.


What I Didn’t Love Concerning the Special

A couple of things I might’ve finished without in the course of the special final night time. I do wish that they stored Bachelor in Paradise as it’s own separate factor. Don’t get me incorrect, I’m freaking obsessive about Bachelor in Paradise! I adore it more than some other reality show, truthfully! However it’s only a totally different present for my part. I feel prefer it ought to have its personal particular after 10 years of that show or something like that. Just felt weird that the present was principally concerning the Bachelor and the Bachelorette with a tiny bit of Bachelor in Paradise sprinkled in. Nevertheless, I used to be dying laughing once they showed the “first murder of a stuffed animal”. That scene is one in every of my favourite scenes within the historical past of Bachelor in Paradise!

One other thing that was onerous for me concerning the special (that has absolutely nothing to do with the show itself) is the negativity I and most of the different women acquired round it. Don’t get me fallacious, there was far more help! And it’s those comments that I selected to concentrate on and respond to. However I have to say I was simply blown away that a few of the unfavourable feedback online about us women! Whether or not it was speaking about our appearance, the best way we talked, or how they hated us again in the day once they watched our seasons. I was actually making an attempt to not pay any consideration to these individuals but I couldn’t assist myself at occasions. I’m only human!

And as I learn comments from individuals commenting about my weight, or my hair, or how I was tremendous annoying, I couldn’t help but think about Hannah B. That poor woman has gotten so much negativity over ABC’s choice to make her the Bachelorette that it’s surprising however she still standing with a smile on her face. I do know I acquired a number of negativity again once I was on the show and like I simply described, I still obtain it now once I make little appearances here in there on the present. So I can solely imagine what she feels when she sees the hundreds of feedback from individuals bashing her everywhere in the world. So I need to take this opportunity to say let’s be variety to Hannah! She’s a 24-year-old woman that simply needs to be beloved! Whether or not you need to be greatest buddies together with her or not doesn’t matter. What matters is she’s human, she has emotions, and we as human beings should have compassion for her. I personally assume she’s going to be top-of-the-line Bachelorettes the show has ever had! She’s going to be fascinating, humorous, quick on her ft, and best of all, tremendous awkward! I can’t wait to see her as Bachelorette!

Oh better of luck Hannah! I can’t wait to observe your love story start next week! I can be watching and I will probably be supporting and rooting for you along the best way! You got this woman!

Love, your Bachelorette sister eternally – Ali

UPDATE: Adding the under gown to this weblog! I apologize for the bizarre lens strains no the photograph. Just took it last night time after watching the show and was planning to use it for my social photograph to inform you guys about this blog. However I can’t work out methods to take away the lens strains! New digital camera problems! Ha! Anybody understand how? Anyway, I needed to share the gown I’m sporting because it’s only $9!!!!! YEAH! 9 bucks! Insane right? Measurement up as a result of the sizes are junior. I am sporting a medium but I wish I obtained a large.

And check out the skit Deanna and I filmed for her Moms in Automobiles collection! The video is on their Insta TV. It’s probably the most dramatic date in Bachelorette history! Ha! And give them a comply with!